Recently I was reading a facebook status where a strong woman of God was confessing how she prays to God to send her a good man. It goes on to ask God to reveal the man to her during her life time where she will no longer have to live a lonely life. While reading her heart-felt status I noticed that I find myself asking the Lord the exact same thing. Within the next ten years I will have graduated undergraduate school, buy my own apartment, start my career, go to graduate school, get married, and have children (according to society's timeline). This is a lot in ten years! So I am not ashamed to ask God for guidance in seeking a soulmate. I mean, have I met him yet? What will he be like? Will I be happy or will I have to get a divorce and find true love in a second marriage? All of these questions go through every black womans' mind.
After having these thoughts, there are things like the black woman's curse that comes to mind. I won't go into detail about this topic, instead I will post the link that fully explains my concern with the black woman's curse.
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